This is a story about obstacles…
Today is my 5th day without medication for neuropathic pain. I’m not in too much physical discomfort, although my foot/ankle is painful due to nerve damage, but anxiety has been a terrible problem. I thought things would be improving by now. I’ve been OK in my comfort zone, avoiding stress and responsibilities. I decided to take on a technical task – akin to the kind of paid work I usually do – but every time that something went wrong I found myself becoming unpleasantly anxious.
My confidence is a little shattered to be honest. Negative thoughts like “oh my God this is harder than I remember” and “I can’t overcome this problem; it’s too hard” popped into my head. My stomach leapt into my throat. I felt a kind of fear and frustration that I would never normally feel when dealing with technical challenges.
It’s shocking to me that I’m feeling like this, having done the hard work of getting myself off alcohol, benzodiazepines and pregabalin. It’s upsetting that I don’t feel better, but I guess recovery is going to take longer than I thought.
I really want to go back to some kind of moderate drinking. I don’t think I was designed to not have something to “take the edge off” the general stress and anxiety of life.
The thought of walking to the pub for a pint of beer is something I’m highly motivated to do. I don’t crave alcohol; I crave the absence of the incredible amount of anxiety I’m suffering. I would also just like to taste some beer.
I’m not going to start drinking again this week, and maybe not even next week – I’m not going to rush anything. Any changes that I do make, I’ll be making slowly. It’s remarkable just how difficult I’m still finding simple tasks I’ve done a million times before, now that I’m debilitated by medication-withdrawal-induced anxiety.
Getting off these damn pills is bloody awful.
Tags: #anxiety #alcohol #medication
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16 responses to “Nonlinear Recovery”
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Virtual hugs to you from me.
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Thanks Richard
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That first sip will be a lingering moment to behold! I reckon the day after tomorrow you’ll notice a marked drop in your anxiety. Fingers crossed. Big hugs!
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I’m wondering whether booze will taste awful after nearly two months off it. I’m imagining red wine and real ale will be as awesome as I remember. Hoping the anxiety levels start to drop soon
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Not to piss on your bonfire Nick…but you dont tend to do anything in moderation…you really think you can handle a “moderate” pint? …x
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I don’t think your an alcoholic Nick?
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well neither did I until you mentioned it 😉
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with friends, maybe. Not alone, no.
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Playing with 🔥🔥….but you know that…what happens when you want a drink and they aren’t around to watch your back?? Just saying….
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Kia kaha 🙂
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I’m on day 8 of no booze. Had to make a hasty exit from work on Friday and cycle home with stomach cramps – the rest of my family have had the norovirus and finally I succumbed too. Booze wasn’t as appealing, though I did consider it last night when feeling better. I realised one thing; that you never regret _not_ drinking the next day!
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Didn’t get to day nine though, you’re beating me hands down!
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well, I guess it shows your bout of norovirus is over. Hope you’re feeling better x
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I’m trying to exorcise it.
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