This is a story about being a martyr...
My wife said she would divorce me if I went to hospital. The alternative was death. Unsurprisingly, I didn't get the most out of the treatment that I received. I'm glad we're not together any more (we divorced last year). Perhaps we can finally start to move on with our lives. I really do wish her the very best of luck in life and love.
If people think I'm self-pitying, a martyr, they're wrong. I had a horrible time, but I'm making a clean break from that life and letting that stuff go. I was told - by my wife - that I was infringing her human rights, by barricading myself in a room for my own safety. When I decamped to living in mega shed she wouldn't even leave me alone in there. All I had was water from a hosepipe. She used siege tactics and I nearly starved to death.
Cause and effect. Life is all cause and effect. I don't believe it's entirely deterministic, but it's statistically probabale that certain actions will - in all likelihood - lead to certain reactions. If you prick us, do we not bleed?
So, I'm hoping to discharge myself from hospital today. I need to come back to hospital though, because my heart is literally broken. It should be OK, but I don't know for certain yet. I need to have an echocardiogram.
If anybody thinks I'm irresponsible, or self-indulgent, you should know this: even when my ribs were poking through and my trousers falling down, I still fed my cat. I love Frankie and I care about him. He doesn't know any better. He was there for me, as non-judgemental unconditional love.
That was all it took to save me from some very dark days.
The pink paint splatters are from 'the test': did she love me or did she love our house? (July 2013)